中古男人

You and boyfriend broke up, through a period of pain, finally had the courage to start a new life .......
You: The guy came back. Do I have to talk to him? or I just have to ignore him for what he done when he left?
I: Open mind. Keep watching. 
After these days, you have an ability to take a view point to watch him in a distance of mind. The distance is helpful to watch him more clearly. To find out the "real" guy. To watch if the guy you knew in before, who is only a image created by yourself, or the guy before is as real as the guy standing front of you. If you are not ready, just keeping your relationship in the distance of good friends. Don't push away the good happiness. But also, don't stay in a fake happiness, or the actual reality will hurt you. After removing all the imaginations on him, if you are ready for accepting this guy, you can re-begin your relationship from good friends.This is my suggestion not command. Please use your inner wisdom to judge what you really want to do. To choose what you love, then to love what you choose. 
Did I answer your question? Any more question?
You: Thank you. I got it.
——On the midnight——
You:  I'm so worried now. I don't know how I'm gonna say this.
I: Go to bed, ask God give you the answer in your dream. And ask let you remember the dream when you wake up. 
You: I can't sleep.
I: Go to bed, repeat pray again and again, till you fall asleep.  You are not alone. God is with you.  Good night.
You: I will. Good night sir and thank you.

——On the next day——
You: Good morning. Sir.
I: Good morning. Feel better?
You: Still
I: Do you know how to say your worry now?
You: I am planning to see him and tell him the truth. Do you think it's a right thing to do now?
I: Yes. Maybe the truth is not a comfortable way, but it often is a good way.
You: I am so worried. How if he refuse, I don't know what to do. So many things in my mind right now.
I: A method to calm down is to do a simple thing. Like jogging, walking, housework......Only when you calm down, you can hear the voice from your inner wisdom or form your angel. Most fears come from that you don't know what will happen, instead of what bad things will happen. You can overcome the fears by a faith -- to trust that God has arranged everything in the best way for you.
You: So thankful to have you as my friend sir.
I: This is my honor
You: I still not prepare anything ..I still don't know how I'm gonna say it ..still confuse 
I: Listen what he say and reply . If you are not well prepared, just wait him to ask you. You don't need to know how to say. That's more easy.
You: Yes I will. But I'm scared
I:

——On the next day——
You: I will meet him at 7pm after his working hour.
I: Need help to overcome fear?
You: I am nervous.
I: Let's make an assumption. If someone accompanys you, next to you, to meet him, will you not be  so nervous?
You: Maybe.
I: Do you know any familiar angels or prayer objects such as Jesus or the Virgin Mary?
You: Yes. I know Jesus, Mama Mary and the rest of holy people.
I: Call your guardian. Call him/her to accompany you, next to you, to meet him.
You: I've already did. Every minute. I even went to church before I get on to the bus. Sir ..are you a pastor? or a preacher?
I: No, I am not a Christian. But I know the God and I am your friend. Imagine him/her talking to you, to comfort you, to be with you, just like me, a real person. They will not just stay in the church, they are waiting for your call to help you. Furthermore, Jesus, Mama Mary and the rest of holy people all of them are your friends too. We all love you. I can understand that you are in a difficult situation. And, I can understand that you are strong enough to overcome the challenge. Only one thing that you need to know is---- yes! You can!
——On the next day——
You: I denied his suggestion. I did say and do everything to convince him not to do that. I already made my decision. I won't follow what he wants. I can not do it. I really can not.
I: Since the choice, go to bear the consequences of the choice. Just as choose to walk into the rain without an umbrella, then accept the result of wet.
You: I made mistake and I won't make another one. Yes, I am willing to accept all the consequences for the action and decision that I make.